How To Date Someone Based On Their Date Of Birth
Let’s be honest: modern-day dating is not exactly a fairytale. It’s brutal out there. Dating apps, which were supposed to make our lives easier, have somehow ended up doing the opposite. Instead of connection, they’ve created fatigue. Instead of curiosity – comparison. Instead of presence – endless scrolling.
For me, dating today feels a lot like grocery shopping on a very full stomach. On the surface, there’s an illusion of abundance — endless options, endless choices, endless “what ifs.” Miss one bus? No problem, another one will arrive in two minutes. Except that real life doesn’t work like public transport, and chemistry doesn’t follow an algorithm.
The more choices we think we have, the less intentional we become. And the less intentional we are, the more mistakes we repeat.
IS THERE A SOLUTION?
Over the years of working with numerical psychology, I started noticing something interesting. At first glance, it might sound shallow, almost too simple, to say that the day you were born influences how you love, attach, and relate. But the patterns are undeniable. We are born on specific dates, within specific energetic programs, and people who share the same consciousness number tend to repeat the same behavioral loops, have the same triggers, and the same blind spots. Same relationship dynamics — just with different faces.
So I thought to myself: what if there were a guide with laser-focused descriptions and tips for all 9 consciousness numbers?
Yes, you can sign up for a workshop on numerical psychology and learn it from A to Z, but not everyone wants, or has the time and resources, to invest in such a venture. But a shortcut like a guide, which you can open before going on a date with someone or simply when needing to navigate a relationship with someone, not necessarily you are romantically involved with, but need to harmonize a relationship with, would surely come in handy. Even I, despite working with this modality and observing various "software modifications" for 5 years now, would benefit from a cheat-sheet like that!
WHY I CREATED THIS GUIDE
You see, once you understand what each consciousness number represents, dating becomes far less confusing. You begin to see why someone reacts the way they do, what turns them on or off emotionally, what keeps them, and what gradually pushes them away. You start recognizing red flags without dramatizing them, and green flags without romanticizing them. And the most interesting part? You can access all of this information simply by knowing someone’s date of birth.
Of course, we are more than just one number. There are other layers and parameters that influence us, and I work with them too. But this alone gives you a surprisingly accurate starting point — enough clarity to stop guessing, overanalyzing, and walking into the same walls again and again.
That said, no system replaces inner work. The foundation of any long-term, harmonious, truly beautiful relationship is still the same: learning to transcend your own ego. This guide won’t do that work for you — but it will help you stop sabotaging yourself blindly.
I created this guide to help you understand your partner, your potential love interest, and, just as importantly, yourself. To navigate dating with more awareness, fewer heartbreaks and disappointments (don’t we love those, right?).
And ideally, to help you avoid mistakes, hoops, and “lessons” you’ve already learned one too many times.
WHO THIS GUIDE IS FOR
This guide is for people who are tired of guessing in relationships, so if you:
It’s especially useful if you want to understand:
By the way, even though I created this guide for dating, this information can help you understand anyone — your family members, colleagues, even random acquaintances you meet along your life journey.
WHY YOU NEED THIS GUIDE
Modern dating isn’t broken because people are bad. It’s broken because most people don’t understand each other - we speak different languages. It’s like trying to drop a file from an iPhone onto an Android device.
Attraction isn’t random.
Compatibility isn’t about effort or chemistry.
Breakups don’t “come out of nowhere.”
They follow predictable psychological and energetic dynamics — and those dynamics are strongly influenced by the day you were born.
This guide uses Numerical Psychology to show you:
Once you understand these patterns, dating becomes calmer, clearer, and far less personal.
WHAT’S INSIDE THE GUIDE
Inside, you’ll find:
WHAT THIS GUIDE IS — AND ISN’T
This guide is: practical / pattern-based / honest / accurate
It is not: fortune-telling / a guarantee of compatibility / a replacement for inner work
It won’t tell you who to love, but it will help you understand why you love the way you do and why they may love differently (yes-yes, it’s like the 5 languages of love but without guessing what their language may be).
IF YOU WANT TO EXPLORE FURTHER
If you’d like to explore your personal patterns in more depth or understand why certain people keep showing up in your life, here are a few ways to work with me:
For me, dating today feels a lot like grocery shopping on a very full stomach. On the surface, there’s an illusion of abundance — endless options, endless choices, endless “what ifs.” Miss one bus? No problem, another one will arrive in two minutes. Except that real life doesn’t work like public transport, and chemistry doesn’t follow an algorithm.
The more choices we think we have, the less intentional we become. And the less intentional we are, the more mistakes we repeat.
IS THERE A SOLUTION?
Over the years of working with numerical psychology, I started noticing something interesting. At first glance, it might sound shallow, almost too simple, to say that the day you were born influences how you love, attach, and relate. But the patterns are undeniable. We are born on specific dates, within specific energetic programs, and people who share the same consciousness number tend to repeat the same behavioral loops, have the same triggers, and the same blind spots. Same relationship dynamics — just with different faces.
So I thought to myself: what if there were a guide with laser-focused descriptions and tips for all 9 consciousness numbers?
Yes, you can sign up for a workshop on numerical psychology and learn it from A to Z, but not everyone wants, or has the time and resources, to invest in such a venture. But a shortcut like a guide, which you can open before going on a date with someone or simply when needing to navigate a relationship with someone, not necessarily you are romantically involved with, but need to harmonize a relationship with, would surely come in handy. Even I, despite working with this modality and observing various "software modifications" for 5 years now, would benefit from a cheat-sheet like that!
WHY I CREATED THIS GUIDE
You see, once you understand what each consciousness number represents, dating becomes far less confusing. You begin to see why someone reacts the way they do, what turns them on or off emotionally, what keeps them, and what gradually pushes them away. You start recognizing red flags without dramatizing them, and green flags without romanticizing them. And the most interesting part? You can access all of this information simply by knowing someone’s date of birth.
Of course, we are more than just one number. There are other layers and parameters that influence us, and I work with them too. But this alone gives you a surprisingly accurate starting point — enough clarity to stop guessing, overanalyzing, and walking into the same walls again and again.
That said, no system replaces inner work. The foundation of any long-term, harmonious, truly beautiful relationship is still the same: learning to transcend your own ego. This guide won’t do that work for you — but it will help you stop sabotaging yourself blindly.
I created this guide to help you understand your partner, your potential love interest, and, just as importantly, yourself. To navigate dating with more awareness, fewer heartbreaks and disappointments (don’t we love those, right?).
And ideally, to help you avoid mistakes, hoops, and “lessons” you’ve already learned one too many times.
WHO THIS GUIDE IS FOR
This guide is for people who are tired of guessing in relationships, so if you:
- keep attracting the same type of partner in a different body
- feel confused about why something felt right at first, and then slowly collapsed
- want clarity instead of endless overthinking
- are capable, self-aware, and done with repeating lessons
It’s especially useful if you want to understand:
- your partner
- your potential love interest
- your ex (yes, that one)
- and, uncomfortably but usefully, yourself
By the way, even though I created this guide for dating, this information can help you understand anyone — your family members, colleagues, even random acquaintances you meet along your life journey.
WHY YOU NEED THIS GUIDE
Modern dating isn’t broken because people are bad. It’s broken because most people don’t understand each other - we speak different languages. It’s like trying to drop a file from an iPhone onto an Android device.
Attraction isn’t random.
Compatibility isn’t about effort or chemistry.
Breakups don’t “come out of nowhere.”
They follow predictable psychological and energetic dynamics — and those dynamics are strongly influenced by the day you were born.
This guide uses Numerical Psychology to show you:
- why certain people feel magnetic to you
- what drains you long-term (even if it felt exciting at first)
- what keeps someone emotionally engaged — and what quietly pushes them away
- why the same story keeps repeating with different faces
Once you understand these patterns, dating becomes calmer, clearer, and far less personal.
WHAT’S INSIDE THE GUIDE
Inside, you’ll find:
- How your date of birth actually influences you
- Clear explanations of all 9 Consciousness Numbers - who they are, how they love, what drains them, and what they need to stay
- The attraction phase - why you fall for certain people — even when you shouldn’t
- How to win them (dating phase) - what creates attraction and what quietly kills it for each number
- How to keep them (long-term) - what sustains relationships once the honeymoon phase ends
- Why they leave - the real reasons behind emotional withdrawal and breakups
- Breakup triggers - the specific behaviors that accelerate the end
- Red flags and green flags - what each number notices immediately in others
- DOs & DON’Ts for first dates + keywords that help you “speak their language”
- Compatibility tables - why some pairings stabilize each other — and why others drain energy fast (bad ≠ toxic; bad = high energy loss over time)
WHAT THIS GUIDE IS — AND ISN’T
This guide is: practical / pattern-based / honest / accurate
It is not: fortune-telling / a guarantee of compatibility / a replacement for inner work
It won’t tell you who to love, but it will help you understand why you love the way you do and why they may love differently (yes-yes, it’s like the 5 languages of love but without guessing what their language may be).
IF YOU WANT TO EXPLORE FURTHER
If you’d like to explore your personal patterns in more depth or understand why certain people keep showing up in your life, here are a few ways to work with me:
- Numerical Psychology in-depth personality reading: https://zaruiamvi.com/numerical-psychology
- Clinical Hypnotherapy & Past Life Regression sessions: https://zaruiamvi.com/hypnotherapy
- The Matrix: Understanding All Numbers In Your Date Of Birth: https://store.zaruiamvi.com/offers/fLK3UHKm/checkout
- Free resources (workshops, meditations, podcast): https://www.youtube.com/@zaruiamvi
- Calenergy.app – is a handy calendar app that tells you which energies and planets are affecting us in general and you personally every day, month, year.
FEBRUARY 2026